On the days between December 2018 and January 2019, aghast at Omana’s horrible neglect at Paramount, Jay invited Ms. Copeland to view the daily Youtube Live sessions that he shared with his family in India so they could all see her pathetic condition. Call lights were not being answered for hours (if at all), and she was often drenched in soiled diapers and extremely uncomfortable. The “facility” had removed her urinary catheter that he had for years at home to prevent infections from her incontinence, as they did not have any skilled staff that knew how to use the catheter. Therefore she was on diapers that had not been changed for hours (if not days) and writhing in terrible torturous discomfort.
After Roger got wind of these live sessions, he confiscated Omana’s Dell laptop and cellphones so the live sessions ended on January. The guardian filed a Care Plan on February ,2019, suggesting that “she should be moved back to her home if son pays for her care” and that there is a distinctive bond between mother and son, and that she would love to go back home. She further sent emails on April 27 stating “Omana is back at Harborview” and “she would return her to Jay’s home if son reinstates her insurance and pays for her care at home”. In many emails she has acknowledged Omana loves her son and desperately want to go back home.
On May 15, Jay complained to American Civil Liberties Union against the guardian and the horrible mistreatment at Paramount. On May 20, entire Family sent joint complaints to several authorities and organizations including US Senators, human rights organizations, political leadership of both USA and India, WA State LTC ombudsman, DSHS leadership. guardianship board and other authorities.
On May 30, Jay sent several emails to Ms. Copeland in return to her harassing call to India and speaking with Omana’s brother Mr. Jayakumar Nair and daughter Raji and grand-daughter Sukanya, about getting their permission to withdraw medication and nutrition to murder Omana. Jay was not invited to the call. In these emails he clearly indicated that he was “not intimidating or threatening you. On the contrary, I am
humbly pleading” so his mother can see her family and friends, without which she has said she feels like a fish out of water, especially as she is only able to communicate in Malayalam.
After she did not respond, he voluntarily sent a final email on June 5th, stating that he would not be emailing her again, per which he has NOT made any contact with her since, except for a legal demand letter asking to arrange a meeting for him and his sister with their mother no later than August 5th. As Ms. Copeland ignored that letter, Family was left with no choice but to initiate a Federal lawsuit.
After the federal lawsuit was filed, her attorney contacted Family to offer assistance to take her back to India if they agreed to dismiss the claims for $1. They declined the offer in public interest as they wanted to ensure justice was served for Omana’s tears in illegal solitary confinement. Thereafter, Jay received an arraignment letter from Orting Municipal Court on November 17, 2019 for the emails he had sent over six months ago, gracefully pleading to be allowed to reunite with his dying mother, under the preposterous charge of Cyberstalking. He had not made any contact with Ms. Copeland, by email or phone, in about six months since he voluntarily stopped emailing her on Aug 5, and never had he even once set foot on the city of Orting. It is clearly apparent that this new “Cyberstalking charge” is yet another example of a malicious and frivolous abuse of legal process for covering up her murder attempt and to derail the criminal investigation against her, and to buttress defense on the ongoing Federal Case.